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Friday, February 24, 2017

Storytelling and its Intimacies



Pondering the gift of storytelling and its meaning, like fine art and its visual capacity to move the viewer, stories pass from one person to another striking deep connections. 

I contemplated the intimacy in storytelling, grasping a depth well beyond my previous considerations.  Only to realize that storytelling, which had been as abundant and fluid as a well-fed stream from high mountain glaciers fed my young girl’s imagination spilling well into adult life and subsequently nourishing Crone-time with fertile flow.   Today it pushes at me to pull stories together to share verbally with others.

How else, I wonder, could entire cultures for thousands of years survive intact, where storytelling brought the people’s history forward through voice.   Entire culture’s survival thrived in ceremonial reverence, sharing stories in kivas, roundhouses, humble churches and grand cathedrals, circled around fire, and on sacred mountains.  People listening and holding their knowledge of their ancestors and therefore, themselves, silently, sacredly.  Bringing forward, in time, through storytelling for their people, their purpose, their relationship to themselves, to one another, to the earth, to the universe. Knowing that their greatness, and the universe’s greatness, was one.  One love, one breath. A story of harmony, unification and exaltation.

Storytelling honours humanness in ourselves and in the other.  There is an intimacy when the storyteller opens herself creatively, in the moment, in heart and thought, preparing an immediate communion of her journey with her listener.  And the listener, who receives with trust and openness–the deepest most feminine expression of vulnerability—one human to another. 

Cerebral as I am, I find this exchange equal in sacredness and beauty to physical sexual intimacy.  The sensual components of voice—timbre, cadence, intonations, breath, and the proximity to the teller, combined with the storytelling gifts of spinning tales opens connections in the brain, primal and instinctual. 

Whether sung or spoken, the intimacy of human voice initiates relationship. And when revered, unfolds with a unstoppable majesty.  Respect between people builds trust and intimacy.  Trust and intimacy binds.  Building stronger unions, stronger bridges, stronger individuals who, when individuated, come together with greater brightness to bring greater light into the universe. 

I fell in love with a storyteller once whose stories he told in great repetition.  Being a person abhorring repetition, I found myself in awe that his stories could grace me over and over with equal pleasure, time and again.  He knew intimately, that repetition was the key to stories being remembered.  And the gift of a storyteller is his stories and their value.  There is a charisma to a storyteller who holds his listener in close proximity.   I felt as if I was the only person on the face of the earth in his presence.  That magnetism he shared with the world— the gift he brought as a storyteller.

Storytellers own the whole world in their minds, weaving tales of beauty and love, terror and history, birth and death, love and hate—the dualities, myths, teachings, and above all, the truths we must learn one day or another. 

We are all storytellers when we look into another’s eyes, into their soul, and share our stories.  How deeply we delve is determined by our courage to live freely, and our love of life and relationship.  Our paths as unique as snowflakes—accessing truths and stories through our personal perspectives and sharing with those whose receptivity and intimacies reaches out to meet ours.


Kat
20 February 2017

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